In Indonesia, family support groups tackle roots of gender violence

5 Marzo 2018
Author: UNFPA
In Indonesia, family support groups tackle roots of gender violence
After a rough and violent early childhood, 13-year-old Rivaldo Taime helped his family become more functional and peaceful thanks to a support group. © UNFPA/Matthew Taylor

JAYAPURA, Indonesia“My daughter used to hide all sorts of things from me,” said Martina, 41, at a support group session in Jayapura, in the far-eastern Indonesian province of West Papua. “But here, we learn to talk to each other openly, equally as friends, and she shares far more now – about problems at school, about boys and growing up.”

Martina and her daughter are not alone. Many families need guidance to become more open about these difficult subjects.

Traditional attitudes towards family and gender-roles prevail in West Papua, where jobs are scarce, infrastructure and services are weak, and poverty is widespread. Young people are often unwilling to approach adults with questions or concerns about relationships.

Yet having a reliable source of support is critical in a community where violence is all too common. According to a report published in 2015, 60 per cent of men in Jayapura reported they had committed physical or sexual violence against an intimate partner. Nearly half of men reported believing that women should tolerate abuse to keep their family together.

Martina’s support group is working to bring young people and caregivers together, improve communication skills, and diffuse conflict – part of broader efforts to end violence in the community.

Run by the Indonesian Planned Parenthood Association, with support from UNFPA and Partners for Prevention, the programme aims to tackle the attitudes that fuel violence against women.

“By helping young people and others in the community talk openly about relationships between the sexes, along with sexual and reproductive health and consent, we’re giving them the tools they need to build happy and rewarding relationships for the future,” explained Grace Temongmere, a UNFPA project officer in Jayapura. 

Group facilitator Budi Astuti speaks with a participant in a group session for caregivers in Jayapura. © UNFPA/Matthew Taylor

“I understand how they feel”

Budi Astuti, 41, became a group facilitator after solving a problem with violence in her own life.

“The impact [of the training I received] was easy to share, because through my own experiences, I understand how they feel,” she said. 

“The programme looks at gender issues, including gender-based violence, and also how that links up with the risk of HIV,” said Ms. Astuti. Research shows violence can increase the risk of HIV, and vice versa.

“But the most important thing was that, by working with other facilitators, by sharing our experiences and what we learned, I saw my situation differently and changed my own life,” she said.

A boy at home in Jayapura, West Papua. Around 40% of women and children experience violence in the lives. © UNFPA/Matthew Taylor

Courage and change

Thirteen-year-old Rivaldo Taime was empowered to change his own life, as well.
He often shielded his younger brother when their father returned home in one of his whiskey-fuelled rages. Substance abuse is prevalent in Jayapura, a factor closely associated with violence.

“He used to drink all the time,” recalled Emma, Rivaldo’s mother. “He would get home, yell at my children and smash things up.”

She added, “My husband and my boys weren’t close. They barely even talked.”

But Rivaldo did something few youth have the courage to do – he reached out for help. And he found the support group.

“We learned about emotional violence, physical and sexual violence,” Rivaldo said of the group. “I also learned how to calm people down.”

Eventually, Rivaldo convinced his father to join the group sessions with him.

Life is still far from perfect. But slowly, things are improving, Emma says.

“After [my husband] joined the programme, [my husband and Rivaldo] share more. They’re much closer, and they sit down together and talk things through.”

In a period of 14 months, the project has reached 131 adolescents and over 131 caregivers. © UNFPA/Matthew Taylor

Hundreds reached

“Over 14 months, the project has reached 131 adolescents and over 131 caregivers,” said Michiyo Yamada, who heads the Partners for Prevention programme, which also works in Bangladesh, Cambodia, China, Papua New Guinea and Viet Nam. 

These efforts have been shown to reduce the incidence of violence among participants. In Papua New Guinea, for example, intimate partner violence fell by 10 per cent in just under one year.

“By empowering girls, young people and families to communicate more effectively, we’re chipping away at the negative gender-related beliefs that fuel violence against women and girls, and so stopping violence before it even starts,” said Ms. Yamada

The project in West Papua is now winding down, she noted, but its popularity and success have convinced local governments, community leaders and volunteers to try to keep the support groups going.

– Matthew Taylor  

Población : 264 mil
Tasa de fertilidad
Proporción de mortalidad materna
Tasa de prevalencia de anticonceptivos
Población de 10 a 24 años
Youth secondary school enrollment
Niños 75%
Niñas 75%